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God Bless You, Dr. MAYA ANGELOU!

After remembering the solemness of the anniversary of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s assassination, I also remember another culturally-relevant event in America and the world – the birthday of the “Global Renaissance Woman” herself, Dr. Maya Angelou. And with the latest news I just got from Tom Joyner minutes ago, my heart is heavy this morning over the great loss of this amazing educator, poet, orator, mother, daughter, and human being.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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My first experience with her works and persona was in school where I had to recite a poem in front of the class. Naturally, I was mortified of public speaking, especially to my peers who would only make fun of me later at lunch if my nerves got the better of me. I found her poem “Phenomenal Woman” after I saw the John Singleton’s  Poetic Justice starring Janet Jackson and Tupac Shakur.

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Miss Jackson’s oration of these magical poems hooked me in as a teenager, especially in contrast to the chaotic world of Compton, CA that her character Justice had to endure. The poetry was her refuge, providing an outlet for her dreams, frustrations, grief, isolation and yearnings for love.

So as I practiced at home, I remember feeling nervous about saying the word “breasts” in front of my class. It felt a little risque but I knew I needed to remain authentic to the original work.

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But something strange happened to me when I was my turn to present my poem. My fear evaporated and I became her character, a strong and self-assured woman who was proud of my internal and external qualities that made me unique. Sorry, readers. I don’t have video of this transformation but rest assured, I never forgot how that one oration connected me to Dr. Maya Angelou ever since.

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What I learned over the years as I grew into my own person was that I wasn’t playing a character that day – I caught a glimpse of who I really was (and am at my “best self”). Thank you, Dr. Angelou and Lady O for giving women like me the vocabulary to recognize this kind of “Aha Moment.” I am the educator I am now because of that poem. I am the assured young woman because Dr. Angelou’s body of work that celebrates self-love and acceptance. You will live on my heart and deeds! XOXO

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“Dating While Being An Introvert”

 

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As a former introvert, I fight bouts of insecurity as a 32-year-old single girl and “choosing my words wisely” with potential suitors I meet OFFline. It stinks and my single friends agree!

So I tend to resort to cinematherapy to widen my perspective – “Waiting to Exhale,” “Bridget Jones’ Diary,” “Pride and Prejudice,” (thanks OVATION and BBC America) “Sex and the City,” ANY Tyler Perry movie, “Hitch,” “The Breakup,” “Couples Retreat” and a new fab “How Do You Know” (thanks USA Network!).

But I will make an earnest effort to go to quality events and hopefully, quality suitors will be there. Here’s hoping!

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Laurean D. Robinson, MA

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Lee Daniels’ The Butler Arrives in US Theaters Aug 16

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Personally (as the granddaughter of a sharecropper and first Black nurse in Harnett County, NC), I am very excited to see this movie this weekend.

I feel like I’ll be watching my birthright on film like I did for “The Help,” “The Color Purple,” “Waiting to Exhale,” ANY Tyler Perry movie, “Rosewood,” “42,” “Carmen Jones” and “Lady Sings The Blues” – I better bring some tissues! Lol

Laurean D. Robinson, MA